Now that you've got your girlfriend, you don't want to lose her. She's amazing and perfect for you- how can you be the best boyfriend for her? It doesn't matter if you've just got together or you've been together for awhile. Men can always use tips to improve their relationship. Keep her happy by being the best boyfriend in the world. Here are some tips on how:
She's Not Psychic- Tell Her Often. It's a well-known fact women are verbal and guys aren't so great at it. When men are in a relationship, they think it's clear how they feel about their girlfriends. Women need to hear it, though. By telling her what you like about her, how fantastic she looks, how wonderful she is you're giving her the security she craves.
A Little Affection Goes a Long Way. You don't have to go full-on PDA for 24 hours a day, but women need affectionate touch. Light touches on the inside of the wrist, the small of her back or a simple hug can create a warm intimacy between you. It also shows her that she's important to you and can make your relationship electric.
Give Gifts That Keep On Giving. Of course women appreciate gifts on their birthdays or Valentines, but it's the unexpected gifts that will charm her. If you see something that reminds you of her, pick it up. Or remembering off-beat anniversaries (one months since our first date, sending her the song that was playing your first kiss, for example) lets her know that you're constantly thinking about her.
Take Her Out and About. It's easy to get a little lazy when you're in a relationship and just stay at home. You need to still romance her, even after you've won her heart. Taking her out or meeting friends and family together seals the deal and makes the bond between you stronger. Don't overwhelm her by introducing your mother after the first week, though. Let the connections happen naturally.
Remember the Woman You Fell In Love With. You fell in love with her for a reason, don't try to change her after you're together. Getting jealous of the time she spends with her friends or getting possessive won't win you any boyfriend points and could push her away.Support who she is and accept her throughout the relationship.
Lastly, don't be afraid to look for outside ideas or help. There's this great ebook, written by a woman (Tiffany Taylor): Guy Gets Girl. While some ideas are for meeting and dating, there are also tips on how to keep your girlfriend not just happy but purring in your relationship. By being thoughtful and continuing to grow with your girl, you'll wind up being the best boyfriend she's ever had.